Every time when you feel sad in your life just think it before reacting that there is someone else also in your life who will be affected to your reactions
Because the reason behind this sadness is always a person and the reason behind it’s happiness is always you and you and you only.
Try to make ppl happy as much as u can in this short life because you never know when you will go away v far away from your beloved ppl. And can you gather that moment again ?? I hope so not so be lively and love your own heart.
life is all about loving each other and sharing the care with your loved one. one or either of the partners must feel for each other or else both will land and end up in an anomaly that he will do it or she will do it, instead the communication or the conversation must have v clear talks of what is to be done so that the partners wont feel the heat by thinking it over and over again.
why clear communication and not hidden expectations ?
this is when and where a lot of partners think they are going the right way in their life but no someone might get wrong by expecting. one must not have hidden expectations from the other because this will lead to bad roads where eventually no one will be able to fix them not even the relationship experts.
The relationship is just similar to a wrist watch, just think what if the watch does not have a seconds leg what will happen to the way you see the watch ?
some may say nothing, watch will show the time as it is already showing and some may say the other way round.
lets go deeper into this from what the perspective may be,
The seconds leg similarizes ones efforts in a relationship the more you see the seconds leg the more you can understand when it will come to the 12hr or the 60th second count likewise the more you focus on the behaviour of your partner in every aspect of life this is when you will be able to move ahead and know you partner more passionately and closely. i know this is a very vague example but the seconds leg is always attached to the mins and hrs legs, this way every partners thoughts are attached to the other ones sadness or happiness. Think about it in a deep manner and you will end up getting the truth.
if u do not have a seconds leg in a clock may be for some ppl old school ones would feel incomplete like the same way when a partner does not feel the pain the other one is having then whats the point of having that relationship infact it can be thought in another way too, that there is a gap which is not completed in that relationship which is to be filled in so that the building or foundation becomes much much more stronger.
This is just to show how much closer one can get to the other and how much far away we all are from our life-savers.
Take Care and Live Long as Life is too short to have all those negative thoughts.
